Big Is Beautiful

                    

                                    BIG IS BEAUTIFUL

          Thin is no longer in! It should have never been in in the first place. More and more women are loving their God given bodies and embracing their curves! The great beauty is the natural healthy beauty. If god wanted us to look like a hungry stick thin model he would have made us all that way. He didn't! He made us all different and special in our own way! I want to talk about rocking the body you are given and feeling confident in your own skin. 

                        MY STORY

       When I was younger I was super small! I was short and skinny. Then came puberty. I started to fill out everywhere. Sadly in today's society it isn't called filling out its called fat and curves are a bad thing! I went from cute little Lizzie to the fat girl. I hated my body for a really long time and had tons of insecurities. I would wear bagging clothes and would hide my beauty. I became really depressed because I felt like I was an ugly duckling. Turns out I just need the right person to bring out my confidence and beauty. My hubby was the first guy to every call me beautiful and still says it every single day. It really took me sometime to get use to hearing the words beautiful and me in the same sentence. My hubby is a really gorgeous and wonderful man! I'm not just saying that ether. He has the bluest eyes I have ever seen and an amazing body! He is beautiful inside and out. So I had no idea why someone so good looking was attracted to someone like me.  Chubby Lizzie. He has always said how stunning I am and how he loves my body but I never could see what he saw. I had a lot of problems through my relationship with my weight. At one point I was so obsessed with being the "perfect" weight that I started to starve my self. I wasn't being healthy. One day my hubby sat me down and said that he didn't care what the scale said, he would love me no what my weight, and he just wanted me to be healthy. That clicked a switch for me and started me on my road of finding my beauty. I decided on my perfect healthy weight at 150. I'm still working toward my goal weight but I love my body! I am sexy and confident in my skin! I AM BEAUTIFUL! I want you all the feel the same way and embrace your curves!


                     


         Confidence! Girl you got it going on! Take ownership of your body. Know what you got and work what your mama gave you! No fears! Walk around the house or your room naked. Look at your self naked in the mirror for a few minutes everyday. Dance around your room naked. Everyday look into the mirror and say only positive thing to your self like " I got a nice booty!" or "Wow! My body is beautiful". It will take some time but build up your confidence everyday. If you are sexually active don't be ashamed or insecure about your body. Work it out! Men don't wanna bang a bag of bones! They want something they can hold on too! Show them what you got! Big girls LOVE BIG! Big girls are also the most fun to cuddle with! If you are confident and love your body your man will too! 


 

          Big is beautiful! I mean have you really taken a look at models they don't look that beautiful. They look more hungry and unhappy then beautiful to me. Instead of looking in the magazines Google Marilyn Monroe, Rita Hayworth, or pin-up girl art. Those are real women with real bodies. Those are beautiful, confident, and sexy women.  Idolize these women not the ones who wear clothes down a run way that lets be honest wouldn't fit anyone in real life. My advice is if you look good and smell good then you feel good. Just because you are a thick female doesn't mean you have to walk around in sweats and a over sized hoodie with your hair a mess. Fix your self up and wear clothes that will extenuate your beautiful curvy body. When you look good you will feel good about yourself. Don't hide from your body show it off to the world! Show the world I'm thick and I am proud! Beauty comes from the inside out. If you feel beautiful on the inside then it will show on the outside.

                  

          When it comes to the people around you have people who will support you and bring out the best in you! If you have a friend or partner who is constantly bringing up your weight and bring you down then they don't really love you for who you are and you don't need people like that around in your life. Surround yourself with positive, supportive, and happy people. If your around down people they will just bring you down. You can be friends with people of all shape and sizes as long as they want what is best for you. You need people around you that will pick up and tell you that you are beautiful. Don't change for anyone! Be you! If people don't like the way you are show them the door!

                   

          Now I am not saying to be unhealthy. I am saying you can love your body, have curves, and still be healthy. You can have McDonald but don't eat it every night. You still need to keep your body healthy and happy. You can still eat what you love to eat but do it in moderation. Portion control is very important. If you are at an unhealthy weight get healthy the right way. Don't starve yourself or throw up what you eat. I have been through all of that! It isn't fun and it isn't good for your temple that God gave you. You also don't need to take tons of diet pills. You just have to remember everything is good in moderation like for me I love soda so I cut down my soda intact to once a week. I have lost a 100 pounds just cutting back on soda. Also it doesn't hurt to work out but don't do it to lose weight do it to make you healthier! Do cardio to build up your lungs and heart strength. Do strength work outs for your muscles. Be healthy and stay beautiful!

                                       I AM THICK AND I AM PROUD